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Welcome to the "burbs"...

I lovingly refer to our neighborhood as the "burbs" because, well...it is the "burbs". I'm almost completely positive that we are the only house within at least a 30 home radius, not inclusive of empty nesters, that don't have kiddos. Because we don't fall into the current format of our fellow neighborhood inhabitants, I thought we should try and be a bit more "neighborly". (Not having a kid in this part of town is like not having an invitation to a party. Those little germ factories, as cute as they are, act as your Golden Ticket. No kid, no social invites.) Just the other day a perfect opportunity presented itself in the form of six new sets of neighbors. Woohoo!!! Fresh meat!
I got my butt into gear and made some tasty cookies and hand made "Welcome to the Neighborhood" cards.
Even though the thought of failing was definitely in the front of my mind I needed to at least do this to prove to myself that my current set of social skills were somewhat permissible in most situations. With cookies in hand I trotted over to the homes of all our new strangers, uh I mean neighbors, and tried not to act like someone who might have laced the treats with some sort of LSD. All-in-all, I think that my attempt to reach out and meet new people was mildly successful. This small triumph was marked by not getting a single door slammed in my face and being greeted with a smile by everyone. I also hoped that a small amount of the cookies might have actually been eaten rather than thrown away. A girl can hope right?

The never ending list of home projects are another result of living in the burbs. What, might you ask, was our "project of the week"? Painting...again. We have a long standing history with painting and not all of it's pretty, but I'll spare the gory details for now. We really wanted to bring some new life to our upstairs living area so we poured over paint swatches for hours before finally making a decision. So, with our trusty/ever so helpful assistants, Chase and Hana, we got started.













A gallon of paint and a couple hours later we were done. When we stepped back to admire all our hard work and planning, it hit us like a ton of bricks...the color was a disaster. Like I said before, we have a complicated relationship with wall paint. I see another weekend of painting in our very near future. Sigh...

Hana decided to protest against the wall color by picking a fight with it. I came back inside from the garage putting the brushes away to find this...














It looked like the wall socked her square in the eye. I'd like to think this happened because she was defending our honor against the horrid green now plastered on our walls...but I'm pretty sure she just took a corner too sharply. The next day I also found the tip of her tail covered in paint too. Since welcoming Hana into our family I've learned the funny lesson that black dogs are like black cars...no matter how clean they really are they manage to always look dirty.

In memorandum of my sweet Elka, we planted a beautiful young peach tree. It just finished blooming and has already started growing small peaches. Pretty sure we won't be able to eat any of the fruit this year, but I'm excited to watch it grow and hopefully thrive.



I planted in a large pot for this season so that I can keep an extra close eye on it's health and well-being. It is a little too delicate to fend for itself against the heat this year so having it in a pot will enable me to bring it into the shade or shelter when needed.
Elka always loved sitting under any tree she could find and just "watch" the goings on of the world around her. It was impossible to get outside to do yard work without her protesting disappointment when you didn't allow her to participate. There were many times that she would sit under the shade of the trees and become so comfortable that you literally had to mow around her. Elka was never accused of being a push-over...but I think that was one of her most outstanding and favorable qualities.


I think that she would have liked this little tree...

A birthday wish for her...

"Not the least hard thing to bear when they go from us, these quiet friends, is that they carry away with them so many years of our own lives." ~John Galsworthy


I can't believe that 10 years ago today my best friend was born...time sure does get away from you when you're busy making plans and living life. It honestly feels like just the other day I was sitting on the living room floor of Cary's house after a long day at work and wondering what I had gotten myself in to.

Puppies were climbing, barking, and making the most adorable fools of themselves.
The situation lent itself to the idea of heaven for most dog lovers.
There was nothing that I could do but soak it all up!

Cary, Elka's breeder, wasn't your run of the mill kind of guy. He is special and holds a sincere love and devotion to those he cares for...especially GSD's. From what I can recall he had adopted Elka's mother, Berlin, along with Elka's father, Kodiak, and two other adult GSD's from a reputable breeder whom was looking to retire. Not knowing that Berlin was "with child/puppies" Cary agreed to take all four of the big dogs under his wing and give them the best life possible. By now, you can logically grasp what happened in the following months.

He found that his once quiet home had quickly become over run with these bouncing and biting bundles of joy...and all anyone could do was smile and laugh because no other reaction was fitting or possible.
It was chaos and unbridled love rolled into one...

While I found myself sitting on that living room floor, and trying my best to come to a "logical" decision about a new found companion, it hit me..."How in the world was I going to be responsible enough to care for another life when I could barely take care of myself?". Yes, I had a great job and a super cute place to call my own but how in the heck would I be able contribute to an animal that would surely surpass my mental acuity before their first birthday?
I thought I'd be sunk for sure...

That's when it happened. I finally made my choice on an adorable petite female pup that wore a thin grey ribbon around her neck. She seemed quite spirited and very well versed in projecting the "cuteness personified" look. However, Cary had someone else in mind. He insisted that the puppy with the thin gray ribbon wasn't for me. Instead, he passed over a rolly-polly black clump of fur that wore a thick green ribbon all while voicing his conviction about his choice for me. He said "this is the dog for you.". Up to this point I'd only spent about 2 hours total with Cary before that fateful evening. Now, here he was handing over this furry lump of dog that didn't seem the least bit interested in me and asserting that she belonged in my life. Never the less, my gut allowed me to trust Cary almost instantly upon our first meeting so the decision was pretty much already made. It seemed to us both that Elka had chosen me even though I hadn't originally chosen her.
This proved to be one of the most pivotal moments in my life
and by far one of the best examples of trust I'd ever allowed.
I knew from that moment on, my little world
was going to get a whole lot more interesting.

Looking back on that day, I couldn't have dreamt for a more perfectly matched companion. Nor could I have aspired to learn as much as what she taught me. She forced me to become a better person and made me realize more about life and love than I will ever admit to a single soul. She was my partner and my professor for almost 10 years and I honestly wouldn't change any of it. (Except for the obvious limitation on our time together.)

My birthday wish for Elka is that I hope I was able to teach her at least a fraction of what she taught me while we were a team of two.

She was breathtaking, defiant, compelling, and loyal to the very end. Happy Birthday my sweet friend. You are missed beyond expression.

Berlin's Angel Elka Hearthaus
April 5, 2000 - November 28, 2009